Family comes first.

Have you ever come across with this saying?

'It is fine to hate any of your family members, but it's not fine to hate your friends'. The reason behind it underlies on the idea that you come in a package deal, which is your family, and you don't choose to and there's a "free hate pass" that allows you to hate them. On the other hand, friends are built on the basis of mutual interest and likeness. With that said, it seems wrong to hate them cause you choose the people around you.

There was a moment in my life that that reason appears logic and a mere route to find reason to just hate when things just don't go your way. But as I grow up, and many of you I presume, learn that family will always comes first. God gives you this package for reason only he has the answers and you should be able to decipher it once you truly understand them thoroughly, by that I mean spiritually. I learn that each of my family members has their own unique thinking and "style". My dad, being opinionated and rational proves that the elderly are as witty as the young gen. My mum, being an organize freak, proves that details define a person and it matters in gossiping, cooking and filings. She relays the idea that if men are defined by their rationality, women are defined by their details. My eldest brother, being all bulgy, proves that the strongest person is only purely strong if exist in them a pure heart and can maintain composure when provoke. My middle brother, being all successful and stylish, proves that getting a first class isn't everything. It all matters how you carry yourself in the working life. oh, and it doesn't hurt to impress others with your wardrobe collections :p

With all that said, friends are like family too, there's time that there's a need to hate them to appreciate. But to me, it doesn't have to go that way. Appreciation should come naturally. Hate shouldn't be the catalyst to generate appreciation. The reason why I'm wiring on family values is because my brother just sent me our family picture and I realise family should really come first, no matter what are the circumstances.